When done correctly, self-deprecation is the ultimate flex

They can’t hurt you when you’re the boss of your own “flaws”

Woman flexing.

For years, people have told me that I shouldn’t make fun of myself.

I’ve also been told that it’s a defense mechanism to avoid having my feelings hurt by other people. I can understand why people…



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Deante L. Young

Personal Development Writer | Deante Unlimited podcast, Host | Deante: Under Construction web series, Star | Deante Young Enterprises, Chief Creative Architect